Hey there, I am Kim Beckers, and I am known as the 'Rock Your Limits™' Mentor. I am on a mission to once and for all free myself and others from the fears that are holding them hostage. To help them take the facade down and break down the lies of self perception, that keeps them living a lie because when you live a lie, you can’t have ultimate sustainable success. Once you unlock these fears, heal them and transform them, you can rock your power, make the money you deserve and have the freedom you truly desire. You see, for years I struggled with trying to consistently create the income I knew I could earn doing what I love. I was passionate and driven but I was stuck. After a long journey of discovering who I was and how I could best serve in the world, and figured out all the business components that are required to create a biz that's in alignment with what you truly desire (yeah, I had created a mutli-6-figure biz I hated, and had to hit the rest button so I could re-create one that was in alignment with what I truly wanted). If you are tired of spinning your wheels and you are ready to use your business as a tool to live the life you desire and rock the world with your message then I would love to help you do just that! Check out the client raves to get a sense if we’re a match.
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At the time I seriously wanted to punch him in the face, I had tears streaming down my face and all I wanted was to “fix” my biz and have this pain go away. Instead, I was challenged to pick up my life and start all over again, because the abuse was so bad, I had no other choice but to leave, you can read more about that back story here.
Long story short, we moved 2000+ miles across the country with 2 small kids and pretty much nothing else, to start our lives over again. Then 3 + years later, I decided to leave it all behind and move back to our home state of New York. You can read about the in between here, and the rest I shared last week here. (well the hi-lights anyway :-))
All of this to say that I feel like after nearly 4 years since that day when my mentor said to me this abuse is your greatest gift, I have finally come full circle, there was only so much I could from afar those 3 + years I spent in TX and now, that I have been in NY for nearly 8 months I do finally feel like I have come full circle and can share these experiences openly in my Journey to Freedom of how I escaped debilitating and devastating child abuse and how you can overcome practically anything in your life.
I got a glimpse of this 3 years ago and then during the summer last year, its the reason I rebranded in the first place. The thing is though, I got scared, I started the process of rebranding and then I started to getting blow back, I started getting resistance, and I retreated and I pulled back. You see, when I got that vision of Rock Your Limits, I knew exactly what it was, but I wasn’t fully ready to step into it, it required me to grow more (which I did by moving back to NY) and I will continue to do, but it also required that I stop what I was doing previously.
Now don’t get me wrong, I love working with my amazing clients, and there are at the moment a handful I am still working with, but we are working on the deeper issues, the real meat and potatoes that keep us stuck in our limitations, and from the outside looking in, that’s not what is portrayed with my brand, and I know that.
So, what I was inspired to do was to shut it down, to stop it, to retreat, to write my book, to dig deep and really ask some tough questions, some of which I am still answering and will continue to answer.
In sense, as the subject of this email suggests, I am retiring, kind of, because its no longer in alignment and I want to serve at the best and highest good for all.
I tried to keep this as a side gig, I have so many digital products that it seems crazy to just stop selling them, but I have the vision, and I was guided to do it, and I know right now my job is to trust, even if I don’t quiet understand it or see the big picture just yet.
So, I am letting you know, that beginning next week, you won’t be able to purchase any of my products, and I wanted to let you know that so if you have been thinking about it you can do something about it.
Some of these programs I have literally been selling for almost 3 years and some of them I recently created this year, they are all awesome and amazing. But its time to retire them, I tried it before, but I got scared. This time, I am doing it differently, and I am going to celebrate with a bang and these babies, I mean products won’t be coming back, at least not in this form, indefinitely, I got the message, Universe :-)
In the meantime, until Sunday at midnight EST I have decided to put these programs on sale, for a pretty ridiculous investment, the sales pages all have timers and once the timers disappear the sales pages will disappear too along with the programs. The majority of these programs are 75-85% off, I really want anyone who has been on the fence about any of these programs to be able to snag them before they retire on Sunday.
Just go to my website here and you can snag them. The formatting is a little wonky for some reason but you can get the idea :)
If you have any questions, please just let me know.
In the meantime, I’ll likely be keeping a low profile while I write my book and get clear on my next steps.
My heart is ready for this work for a long time, and finally I am in a position to do it and feel fully aligned. My mission is to help irradiate child abuse and to help heal those who have been through it so that they can have a life that they deserve finally. There is no need to suffer anymore. We have such a tremendous ability to heal and I want to help those who want help. If that’s you, I’d love to hear back from you, just hit me up here.
It’s been great to be able to step away for a bit, spend time with the kiddos, in the sun, at the beach and really just having some space.
I have been feeling a bit cramped the last several months and things have been snowballing from there. Actually, ever since we moved back to NY if I am honest with myself.
It wasn’t what I expected it to be, I am not sure exactly what I expected but it wasn’t what I thought it would be.
You see, as you may or may not know, I moved to TX 3+ years ago because I had to escape, my past, my family, my trauma, and while I was in TX for those 3+ years I did tremendous healing, emerged as a new person, and really learned to stand in my true potential (although, I now see I wasn’t even scratching the surface). I have had the great honor of helping amazing entrepreneur’s to get the hell out of their own way and forge a path to freedom.
And some where along the way, I forgot what I was fighting for, shit got hard, again, shit, last year was the most profitable year to date in my biz and it was filled with joy and love, and awesome amazing clients, beaches, and lots of family time. It’s one of the reasons I chose to come back to NY, I thought I had come full circle, that it was done, that my past was finally in the past and it was safe for me to come back home to NY, not to my family, that I know is not safe, but to be able to live where I want to live, how I want to live and not be worried about if I am going to run into my past .
So, I took the plunge and almost as quickly as I decided to leave NY in the first place, we left TX and headed back to NY, this time John went ahead with out me so he could settle things for us, and we could get the kiddos registered for school, when we left the first time, they weren’t even in school yet :-)
John moved back home within 24 hours of making the decision and me and the kids within 45 days. it was filled with lots of interesting adventures and of course, it took a lot of money and resources went into making another cross country move, definitely a bit more strategic this time :-) thank goodness, I do learn from my past :-) but still it was draining and it took a lot out of me.
A lot more than I had thought it would, sure it was filled with excitement and fun, and I felt a sense of comfort being back in my old stomping ground, but me, I wasn’t the same woman who left those almost 4 years ago now, I had changed, evolved and grown into someone else. And when I got back in that old environment I was challenged, big time.
It was weird, almost this surreal kind of twilight zone thing going on because it was familiar yet it wasn’t because I was different. I also discovered that despite all the healing and evolving I had done, I wasn’t able to come full circle until I was back in my neck of the woods.
And so, over that past 9 months or so I have been rediscovering who I am through new eyes, in a way that was not possible for me before because I was holding onto so much baggage, being held hostage, a prisoner in my own mind, own world and today, I wanted to share that with you, and now that I am on the other side of this, and have come full circle I can see the magical gifts that were in store for me. It’s like I am back, its me on steroids so to speak, stepping into my potential and being even more of me.
I wrote this passage in my journal during this journey, I have been hesitant to share it with you because, its harsh, its vulnerable, its me, it’s scary, you could judge me, and yet, my gut won’t not let me share it because I know I am not the only one who has gone through this, and I want to help and I believe shining the light in the darkness is the only way to truly lead to the light.
And if you’d like some support, either 1:1 or in a group setting be sure to check out the PS, as summer is winding down I am beginning to make room in my schedule to take on a very select # of clients, so if you are ready to liberate yourself and you’d like some help, then let’s chat, okay! :-)
Here goes…and if this offends you and don’t like having me in your inbox any longer, no worries, I am definitely not for everyone and that’s cool, the unsubscribe link is at the bottom of the email :-)
Who do you think you are?
You think you have the power to change a situation? To make it better? To make your life better? To create a biz and life you want?
Please, get the hell over yourself, you are useless, you are worthless, you’ll never amount to anything and you might as well just give up now.
You are a useless piece of shit that has never amounted to anything and never will. And what you are really afraid of is that you will be found out, that you are a complete and utter fraud, because guess what. that’s what you are!
Seriously, who in the fuck do you think you are? I mean for real. Get the fuck over yourself. Do it now, just come to terms with it, you are a useless, piece of shit that is worthless, seriously why are you even trying, it’s such a fucking joke.
You are a fucking joke, my God, look at you, you are destroying your life, everything you ever thought you’d work for. It’s gone, you are destroying it all, pretty soon, there will be no one left by your side. The only reason the people who are by your side are by your side is because, well, they can’t see a better option right now, but trust me, when they do, they will be out of here like white on rice.
What is the point?
What is the point of all of this, it’s like why keep on going, what are you working towards? What is it all for?
It’s like in this moment, it seems as if you have lost all hope of becoming something better, something stronger, something worthwhile, something other than your mom and you look in the mirror that’s all you see. You see her, a worthless piece of shit, selfish and you can’t even get out of your our own way. Look at you you, you have Having destroyed all that was. You don’t even know who you are anymore. It’s like there is nothing left to fight for, what the fuck are you fighting for? Where the hell did this come from? How did this happen?
And now you realize that you just screwed up a really great opportunity, And it was probably a really good chance to turn everything around, but of course, you fucked it up, again! What else is new.
And now, well,You Think,Well I guess,Going back to doing what I was doing…,Isn’t that bad?
Who cares if it was doing something you don’t believe it,I mean who do you think you are that you get you, What you love, what you’re passionate about what you really good?
Come on man, this stuff is so deep, this dysfunction, it’s so deep it’s in your Fucking DNA,It’s in your kids DNA for crying out loud. Come on you really think that you could actually do something about it do you?Like really you think you are “The One” that will bring about change?That will turn this shit around, Come on who do you think you are?
You haven’t even done it yourself, you can’t even stand on your own 2 feet, you are useless and worthless and you’ll never amount to anything.You’ll never amount to anything. Why don’t you just give up now, Give up on your dream.Your dream, come on now, you are so freaking pathetic you don’t even know what it is. Really?
Come on who are you kidding.Just give up. Just give up now, All you do is cause more harm, more hurt, more betrayal, more pain, more suffering, more struggle.
I can’t even believe these thoughts, these words, Is this really how you think about yourself? Like really and you think you’re going to help other people?
It seems you’re not even in a position to help yourself.
OMG. this is eye opening. And this hurts really bad.
These thoughts, These words, Has it been running the show the whole time?
Just a waiting, waiting for you to fall, for you to break, to die.
It’s so painful. You didn’t even know this about yourself. You don’t even know why it hurts so bad. You don’t even know why you feel this way, They’re so much in the past that you thought you left there. Only, you left you there too, and that part of you, she has been living in that pain day in and day out, never able to escape it. And now you she rears her ugly little head and causes havoc and thoughts and feelings that you don’t know what to do with them and you try to shut her out, to shut her off.
You can never leave her behind, not without healing her first, she is always with you, running the show in the background, that scared little girl, 3, 5, 7, 13, she does not have the capacity to navigate this, no, she was never meant to navigate this. But you left her, alone, in the dark, with the demons and now, you feel lost, and scared and lonely.
She feels lost and scared and lonely, and now she’s angry, she’s angry you abandoned her, you left alone, high and dry and out there on her own.
And you thought she would not fight back, not lash out, not try and get your attention.
Yes, that is her, messing up your life.
She is the one causing the struggle, the hurt, the pain, the sacrifice.
She knows it, she knows it all too well.
And now you feel like a lost child who doesn’t know her way home.
You tried calling out to her, but she doesn’t hear you, nobody hears you, there is no answer, the phone just keeps ringing and ringing, no machine, no voicemail.
You are all alone.
Feeling lost, and scared, and lonely and angry.
You just want to go back home.
Why won’t anyone save me?
Why won’t you come to my rescue?
Why do I have to go through this?
Why do I have to go through this on my own?
You were supposed to take care of me, you were supposed to love me, to protect me from evil, from harm, from the devil but instead you slept with him,you are the devil in disguise now.
I don’t even know you anymore.
I am on my own trying to fight to live another day to survive to get by only you left me with no map, no GPS. I can’t even see the sun, the stars and the moon, no way to navigate this on my own, my head is spinning, my eyes are filled with tears. I’m terrified, and you, It’s you, I never really wanted this, I never signed up for this, I just wanted to be loved.
I trusted you. You told me everything was going to be okay,it’s not OKAY, my God, it’s not even close to okay.
It’s not even close.
You are stuck in your own prison, that you created just pretending that it’s okay.
Being held hostage by your trauma, the past, the abuse.
You can’t even recognize yourself anymore. You’ve become the things you swore you would never be.
But you can’t feel, no you can’t feel, you don’t have time for that no, there are bills to pay, and food to put on the table, so you just keep on keepin on, covering it up, pretending it’s okay.
But the wounds they run deep and these scars, oh these scars are constant reminders.
You pray, you hope, you pray, you hope, begging, pleading, please, come and save me, please help me escape from this hell, this prison.
But here’s the thing, nobody’s coming to save you, despite the fairytale stories you were told as a kid, no, you are on your own.
Left in the dark, with the pain, hurt, the guilt, shame, it’s cold and scary, and you don’t want to be there, no, you’d rather be anywhere else, but not here, not now, not after all you’ve been through, all you’ve done to try and put this behind you.
But, the only way out is through.
Embrace it, feel it, swim in it, take from it what it has to give you, the strength, the courage, the potential, and allow it transform your life.
There is power in the darkness, there is power in no longer pretending, there is power in healing, you can be saved, you are worthy, you are child of God, despite it all, in fact, because of it all you have the power, the strength, the courage, the tenacity to get out of survival and into thriving.
But, the only way out is through.
Isn’t it time you stopped pretending that everything was okay, let it go, the shame, the guilt, and embraced who you really are.
It’s safe for you to be you, it’s safe for you to transform your life.
But, the only way out is through.
Take back your power and come home. Come home to you. Love yourself, full, complete and free.
I am also in the process of creating a group program as well, I am still nailing down the details of what that looks like but it will for sure include a community of others who are on the same journey, a safe place for you to come back home and not think you are crazy, lol, anyway, if you’d like be on the first to know it comes out, just click here to get on the list (plus,I’ll give you something special right away too).
Are you in full swing summer mode yet? I was just getting my haircut a few days ago, and the receptionist was asking the gal in front of me when she needs to come back for her appointment. (It’s just good business sense to ask when is the next time your client would like to come in for service) and also a good idea to make a suggestion. As she did, she said, well, your color should last for 8 weeks so why don’t you come back in about 8 weeks.
Simple, no pressure, no shame, just flat out asking, and you can do the same in your business too! Remember, you are the expert. Okay, so back to this, when she said 8 weeks, it was like okay, that feels far away, but then realizing crap, the kiddos will be back in school, and the summer over, ugh, wow, time really does fly by doesn’t it?
It really hit home and I have been thinking about it for the past few days, and honestly, I have been on my case about it too, because, well, there are some things that I just have not done that I have been putting off, and holding out, and “waiting” for the perfect time,etc. Now, don’t get me wrong, I have done a lot of stuff, and I am proud of how far I have come and of course, there is so much more that I want to accomplish as well. As I am sure you want to as well too!
Do you have a vision for where you’d like your business and life to lead you? Remember, the vision of the life comes first, because without it you are just poking around in the dark, and the vision for your life will lead the way and light the trail, it will show you what kind of business model to use, what kind of marketing to do, even what kind of clients to work with. And you really only want to work with dreamy clients, right?
You really can work with whoever your heart is calling you to work with, and if you need some help with that, check out Insider Secrets to Get Clients FAST here!(it’s my proven step-by-step system to help you get clients FAST, using the skills you already have, instead of reinventing the wheel.)
Once you nail your vision down you can begin to execute on it. And if you need some help with that, then be sure to check out the rocking deal I got going on on Rock Your Goals + Strategic Planning System here! (this works even if you hate the traditional approach to goal setting, its a bit more woo and helps you to get the heck out of your own way, while still being grounded) its kind of revolutionary like that, just saying. :-)
So once you have all that nailed down its a matter of taking action and getting the result. Sometimes, you don’t get what you expect, sometimes things don’t work out the way you thought they would, and sometimes, you convince yourself that you have been doing the “right” aligned actions, when really you are in deep resistance and your pattern is showing up big time, along with those limiting beliefs.
And this is what happened to me, what I realized, what I have been telling myself for several months now, well, if I am really honest, I have been telling myself this since I moved back to NY, and that is that right now, I am really looking to build my empire, help as many people as I can with what I have and take myself out of the 1:1 work. I love the 1:1 work, it is so rewarding, and fun, and my clients get awesome results, and this year has been a huge wake up call for me to realize that more and more I need to do things my own way.
I have always been selective about who I will work with 1:1, I am investing my time just as much as the client is investing their time, and I am fully invested in the results I help facilitate with my clients, and I also realize that if I want to move in the direction I want to move in my business, then this really does need to be very limited. It has been limited for quiet some time, the last few years, and now its time for me to limit this even more, because this is what I am being called to do.
And the truth is, it is scary, and I don’t know what to expect, but it is totally in alignment with my vision, so I am taking the steps and I am trusting that I will be taken care of, because, we always are. I took the first step and removed the work with Kim, and application process from my website, it felt kind of funny. I don’t know if I’ll put it back up there or not, and I don’t know what the repercussions will be for making this decision, I just know its what is right for me, for right now, and that may change once the kiddos are back in school, but I don’t know.
Right now, this is my vision, and I am going to take action toward living my vision and I’ll course correct as I go along. So, I guess this is my official, unofficial announcement that I am not taking on any new stand alone, 1:1 clients at the moment or in the foreseeable future after July 29th, so if you’ve been thinking about it, this may well be your last chance to get on board :-) no pressure, and like I said, things may change but for now, this is my vision :-).
What is your vision? Are you living your vision yet? What can you do to step outside of your comfort zone and safety net?
I’d love to hear about it.
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Happy Friday and Happy Canada Day for all my Canadian Friends in the North, and of course, Happy 4th of July to all my American friends!
Nothing says freedom to me like, the 4th of July to me, how about you?
Yes, I love hanging at the beach, and fireworks, and BBQ’s and all the fun celebrations…
And… well, its kind of hard to enJoy that sometimes when you feel broke.
You know what I mean?
Or if you are slamming it with your biz but its taking over your life, and its all consuming.
Again, hard to enJoy.
When you feel like you can’t take a day off from your biz or else the bottom is going to fall out.
You feel like you can’t breathe because you don’t know how you are going to pay your rent.
I know, because, I have had the experience of all of the above.
It just plain old sucks, truly, you can try and sugar coat it but really, it sucks.
The good news is that if you are experiencing this, its okay, because, you can change it.
You can actually change it on a dime.
Again, I know
Because, well, I did
For sure, nothing special about me.
You can do it too!
You just need the right tools
And the right mindset
And of course, you gotta believe in yourself.
Because the cold hard truth is.
Nothing changes unless you do, and it all starts with your mind, and your belief in yourself.
End of story.
You have all the power. you have all the control. YOU.
If you are experiencing a whole bunch of shit in your life, then guess what.
You created it.
Seriously, you did. I know, I know, probably not what you want to hear.
But, it is what you need to hear.
I know, because, I used to be there too!
No, I can’t do that.
No, I can’t invest.
No, I don’t have the time.
You know what?
It’s all BS.
We find the money for the things that matter to us.
We find the time for the things that matter to us.
And if you are not getting what you want out of life or business, then sorry to be the bearer of bad news but its your fault.
Listen, being subtle is not really my strong suit
I don’t have time or patience for that.
And if you want to create a biz and life you love, then you shouldn’t either.
Stop wasting your time trying to do it all and focus on what matters.
Get crystal freaking clear on the vision you want to create for yourself, and what you need to do to get their, take responsibility for having created your current circumstances, (yes, even if they were out of your control, because the longer you stay a victim to it, the more it holds you hostage and you cannot change it.
Trust, be wasted years trying to justify why I had every right to be angry, and poor, and tired, and feel like shit and have bad luck and guess what?
I got a whole bunch more of that, until, I decided I had enough.
I took responsibility and faced my fears, and said you know what, I am going to believe in myself enough to start to change.
As it says in the bible, it takes just a mustard seed of faith, belief is the same way.
Hey, even if you can’t believe in yourself just yet, borrow my belief in you.
My clients do it all the time.
Heck, I did it when I got started.
I know you can do anything you put your mind to.
Anything that you desire in your heart of hearts can be yours with some focus, and determination.
You can do it, I believe in you.
You totally got this, and you are fully supported by the Universe to do so.
And, in the spirit of Freedom, I have a few gifts for you, all totally FREE, just for you!
- If you need more clients, like, NOW, then check out this training, $97 value, yours free, just click here for access now!
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- And, if you are not already a member of the Rock Your Limits® Online Success Academy, then get access here for FREE. (p.s. These training’s, as well as tons more training’s and resources, and scripts, and templates, and other hacks are already in the members area waiting for you, go here NOW for access FREE for the next 7 days! Seriously, no strings attached. :-)
Well, maybe one catch, that is.
Have an amazing rest of the day, weekend and holiday.
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P.P.S. If are totally overwhelmed with everything you are doing in your biz and feel like you can’t breathe, then check out this training, $97 value, yours free, just click here for access now!
P.P.P.S. And, if you are not already a member of the Rock Your Limits® Online Success Academy, then get access here for FREE. (p.s. These training’s, as well as tons more training’s and resources, and scripts, and templates, and other hacks are already in the members area waiting for you, go here NOW for access FREE for the next 7 days! Seriously, no strings attached. :-)