In this mindset hack we are going to take a look at how if you decide it’s a done deal it is.
One of the greatest gifts that we have been given is our ability to choose. We can choose what it is that we want to create and what it is that we want to do and how we want to do it and all that fun stuff that goes along with it. And of course, part of choosing is deciding to choose.
Often times, we are choosing without really realizing that we are choosing because we have not properly made a decision in the first place.
One of the first things that I work with a new client or any client for that matter is getting clear on their vision and what it that they want to create. It’s the first step to creating anything that you desire, it’s called deciding that you want it and then choosing it.
But, I see it all the time, and the truth is told, I still do it sometimes too, well, more often than I care to admit, really, but we are all human aren’t we :-). And it is part of this human experience, so I forgive myself when I realize that I have been doing it, yet again.
It’s funny because I don’t if this happens to you but it happens to me all the time, and most of the clients I work with too. You think that you have decided that you want something, you start taking action towards it, you create your vision board and all that fun stuff and then you feel like you are playing the waiting game.
And you wait, and wait and wait, and well, nothing happens. Well, not exactly nothing, but a whole lot of stuff that isn’t really what you want starts to come creeping in. Perhaps your AC will break on the hottest day of the year, or your kids will get sick the day you have a big interview scheduled and you’ll have to pick them up early from school. Or whatever, it is, fills in the blank.
I used to get so discouraged from these little mishaps, or perhaps big mishaps as often are the case when you are trying to make big leaps in your life and biz. It can become very discouraging and sometimes it seems as if the powers that be are against you. But really, its not so much the powers that be that are against you as it is that your power is against you.
You see, it is been my experience that one of two things are happening in these scenarios.
First, you haven’t actually decided what it is that you want. You have decided what it is you are no longer willing to tolerate and then you come up with something that you think you are willing to do to get it to stop. For example, you are working really hard but you don’t seem to be making any progress. You have this nagging feeling that you could do it this way but there isn’t any evidence that it can be done that way (because it’s actually your job to forge the path for you to get there) and you decide that you’ll just stick to the tried and true way of doing things that have worked for others.
Of course, the problem with this is that this decision is lined with all sorts of heavy energy, like have to’s and should’s and is NOT aligned to what you really want. But you decide better to be safe than sorry and just go for what it is that soft little whisper is telling you. But, you don’t ever get there, sure, you might have some intermittent success because you are working so damn hard taking action how could you not create some sort of success, right? But, its kind of like sludging mud up a hill. It’s not fun and all that you really decided was that you don’t want the thing you are currently tolerating so you do the thing you think you have to do to get it stop, you know, the proven way, haha, proven for someone else. That’s the trick of the mind, but it feels like the safe choice, but really it’s not!
Basically what it comes down to is that you really actually have not made a decision to choose what you want, but rather a decision to not chose what you don’t want, a decision by default.
In this case, the work you need to do is decide what you want and decide it’s going to work before you take any action. You need to be really clear on what it is that you really want, not what you think you can have or think you can create.
If you need some help on this, check out the resources below:
- Stop working towards your vision
- Setting goals, easier said, easily done!
- The art of achievable goals
- Why you’re not meeting your needs and how to change it NOW!
The second scenario I see is that the Universe is lining up all the things you need to get rid of in order to have the thing that you want. In other words, the Universe is showing you all of the things that are currently out of alignment, the beliefs, the people, the circumstances, all of it that needs to change in order for you to create the thing that you want. This is where your mindset work comes in. This is not the time to retreat back to safety and think, well, I guess it was not meant to be. That is the illusion, that is the lie.
The truth is, if you can dream it you have it. The truth is that that desire that you have inside of you, is real, it’s a gift from God, from the Universe and the truth is, you have what it takes to manifest that dream, those desires. They are given to you by your source so that you can become the person you were meant to be all along, you just have to get yourself out of the way long enough to allow that to happen.
And yes, in case you are wondering, way easier said than done, you are a work on progress, I am a work in progress, we all are a work in progress. Actually, that is kind of the point, isn’t it? If we had this whole thing figured out already well, then, we wouldn’t really be here, would we? Nope, we would have moved on. 🙂
So here’s the thing, anything you want you can have but you have to decide and believe that you can have it. Simply put, decide it’s a done deal and it is. But decide that you have to do it a certain way, and have all the bells and whistles and follow someone els’es formula and all that jazz and guess what, you just threw a monkey wrench into the mix.
It’s really that simple. Decide It’s a done deal and it is!
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