From victim to victor

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Mindset hack: From Victim to Victor #rockyourlimits #mindset #biztalk #loa

It’s been cold and rainy here in NY for the past several days, and I have been tucked away in my office getting ready to unleash something that has been 5+ years in the making and stepping further into my purpose and passion and man is it scary as hell.

Seriously, I don’t think I have been this uncomfortable in a really long time.

Here’s a snapshot of me sitting here at my desk, in my office, my kids sitting across from me on the couch playing Minecraft on their iPads together as my son just got home from school and going through old timeline photos on Facebook searching for a memory that brought it all together for me.

The first time I shared my story and truth be told one of the last times too, well, at least in public that is.

It was March 2013 and on was sitting on the stage at BFLE David Neagle’s it event at the time, I was his private client at the time and I was sharing my fuselage moment.

My struggle – I was unhappy, unfulfilled and not making the money I wanted to make in my business, I was stuck, through a conversation with David, I realized my problem was that I was being a VICTIM, I was putting myself and my family in physical danger and I did not even realize it until this conversation.

My Decision – This was unacceptable, I was going to take control over my life and stop being a VICTIM, I was going to go home get my kids, get my husband and leave NY for Texas, with nothing in place and stepping into total faith

And I do. I literally flew home from that conversation, told my husband we needed to leave and by 11am the next morning we packed everything we could fit into our minivan and hit the road to start our life over again in TX.

My result – Less than 4 months since making that decision I made more money in my biz in than the previous 3 years of business, we have a great place to live, hubby had a job he loved and, kids are taken care of, we are safe and we are prospering.

I go back to that moment, more than 5 years later now and I remember what it felt like sitting in that chair during that conversation I had with David and realizing that I had no control over my life. That my perceived safety was actually me walking this path towards the lions den. I saw my life flash before my eyes and I felt the pain I would have put myself and my kids through if I did NOT change how I was thinking and what I was doing. I was scared for my life. (you can read more of the story on my About page here if you’re interested)

The truth is it wasn’t my fault, but it also was my responsibility to do something about it.

I had been programmed and conditioned into it.

Maybe you have been too?

But the truth was I had always been a victim.

My biological father had been molesting me for years, he tried to rape me at age 9 and then tried to kill me a few months later. My uncles, my grandfather, the neighbor, they guys at my job, my stepfather.

I was a victim for a long time.

It wasn’t my fault, but it also was my responsibility to do something about it. In fact, I was the only one who could.

Whether through rape, molestation, physical abuse, mental abuse, emotional abuse, spiritual abuse. You name it.

But the truth is I mostly abused myself.

And although I made huge strides over the next several years I continued to fall prey to the biggest abuser of all.


Things would go well and then they would spiral out of control.

I would stuff the pain down.

Deep where I could not find it.

Where I could not hear it.

Where I could not feel it.

It hurt too bad.

I felt so much shame.

I had so much blame.

Mostly for myself.

Then one day it began to melt away and the seas began to part.

I had my awakened moment.

The first time I had seen myself as my true self.

It was February 2013. Phoenix, Arizona at the Biltmore.

I remember it clear as day.

The first time you see your true self isn’t really something you forget if you know what I mean 🙂

I saw myself in the mirror, at first I was so scared I looked away. Then I heard this little whisper that said: “don’t be scared”. I looked into my eyes and I saw myself, my fire, my passion, my purpose.

And it all came together.

Suddenly everything that had happened to me made sense.

I felt the shame wash away from my body, for the first time ever!

I felt light and alive.

I had so much clarity.

So much fire.

I got the message loud and clear. You are a change-maker and you are going to empower women and change the world, help them to heal their past, release their shame and live their best life and create a business that supports it.

I was on fire.

I made a vow to myself that I would go forth and help empower women the way I felt empowered at that moment.

I remember sitting on the plane on the way home writing in my journal that I was going to make $30k in the next 2 weeks.

And sure enough, I did, in fact, I made more than that and I got to sit on stage and share how I had created that money pretty much out of thin air by using my power, by letting go of my fear, and stepping into the dark side of my soul and mind.

I knew at that moment that one day I would decide to go all in and share my biggest secrets of how I turned my life around and went from victim to victor.

And that day is coming, it’s here, I am ready to take that plunge in the public eye and step in to help you transform your life and biz while I do the same.

Now, I don’t have it all figured out, yet, and I don’t have everything I want, yet, but I know that I will. I am never going to sit here and tell you that my way is the only way, because it certainly is NOT. And I will never pretend to have it all figured out because I don’t and I never will. I prefer to lead from the trenches, right alongside of you.

You gotta do it on your own but you certainly do not have to do it alone. I am here, with you, every step of the way.

I’m here to help you do just that, to transform your dream biz into a reality by getting the right stuff done, transforming your fears into your superpowers so that you can make the money you desire + have freedom + fulfillment and a life on purpose.

Are you ready to Rock Your Limits® and Power Your Potential™?

Let’s do this together, being an online entrepreneur can be a lonely scary place, especially when you are fighting those little demons, aka monkey mind in your head that keeps whispering “you’re not good enough”, “you’re not worthy”, “you can’t do it as great as she can”, “you have to work harder”, “you gotta go faster”.

You have to do it by yourself, but you certainly don’t have to do it alone. I know first hand how scary it is taking the leap into creating a biz that actually serves you instead of you feeling like you are chained to your biz and I invite you to join me on this journey. Together we can do so much more than we can apart. I fully believe that we can be, do and have it all, I don’t have it all figured out quite yet (but that’s kind of the point right, otherwise we wouldn’t be here, right?!)

So, are you ready?

Are you ready to create spiritual liberation + financial freedom?

To finally stop giving a crap what other people are doing, how they are doing it and wondering if you are good enough?

Are you ready to transform your fears into your superpowers so that you can make the money you truly desire, to live the life you really desire + have freedom + fulfillment?  

Making money and creating your business doesn’t have to be hard.

The business of business is easy for me, the biz strategies are a given when you work with me, I am a fierce businesswoman and I am deeply committed to helping you get results in your business bank account.

I am also as fiercely committed to helping you take down the facade and break down the barriers that are keeping you stuck so that you can create a sustainable business because they are what keeps you unfulfilled, and stuck on many levels but also keeps you living a lie, and when you live a lie you cannot have soul satisfaction, it’s not sustainable, which is why you keep moving onto the next bright shiny object.

So, are you ready!?

Go here now and let me know and let me know if that you are ready?

I have something coming for you that I am so darn excited about I am practically bursting at the seams over here as I step into this leadership role I vowed to myself to do some 5+ odd years ago.

You’ll hear more about it soon. Promise.

Are you ready to go from victim to victor?

Are you ready to take control of your life and get everything you want?

Go here now and let me know.

I can’t wait to hear from you.

So much love.

xox, Kim

P.S. stay tuned, I have something juicy coming your way, if you already know you want in go here now, I would love to chat 🙂 No pressure, just a conversation! 🙂


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