Today I was inspired to share this business success mindset hack with you. This one thing was the biggest key for me looking back to creating my life on purpose.
I am by no means done, it is totally still a work in progress as I know it always will be but this really is like the biggest thing that when I got this really shifted everything for me.
I know what it is like to grow up in a crazy house and be expected to do things you should not have to do, to be responsible for things no 9 year old should have to do, to be threatened to death, to fear for your life, to not know if you were going to get love, or be abused. Those experiences taught me a ton, I learned very early on how to pick up on the subtle energies of what was really going on, what was not being said, it has served me very well in life and with helping my clients.
There was a time when it did not really phase me so to speak, I just did not know what I did not know and thought this was the way it was for everyone until I got a bit older and started to realize that actually, this was not the normal way kids grew up. The more awareness I got about that the worse I felt about it, but in the beginning I kinda just stuffed it down and stuffed it down and went on with my life, trying to prove how awesome and worthy and lovable I was. I did this by going after all the things I thought it meant to be successful, college degrees, high paying job, dream home, cars, husband, boat, money all the material things.
Then one day as my husband and I were driving back home from visiting my family for a birthday party I realized that although on the outside looking in it seemed as if I had everything I wanted I was actually really super freaking depressed and sad, and I just did not know why?
That’s when I started my personal development journey, that was nearly 15 years ago now and that was about the time I realized more deeply and more fully how much my childhood had f**ked me up. The deeper I dug into all this trauma the more and more my life stopped working.
It was not until years later that I began to let it go and was able to see it all for what it really was.
But that is not even close to the biggest piece nor the biggest gift and key that help set me free, it was coming to this place of being able to appreciate those experiences, that past.
To appreciate it for what it was, a learning experience yes, but also a creation.
You see, we live in a world of polarity, and so when life causes you to experience something that you do NOT want, like a really bad childhood it is still actually serving you because you are creating on the polar opposite side of that equation, you are just doing it from an energetic rather than a physical sense. This means that when you finally give yourself permission to play with the other side of the polarity, and you do that by appreciating the experiences for what it was you are able to tap into this vortex so to speak of escrow energy that you created many years ago.
This Abraham Hicks clip, I think does the best job about explaining that, check it out here. It is really, really powerful!
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Once I realized the past for what it was and allowed myself to come to this place of appreciation for it my life began to come back together for me, my business became to come back together for me. And the best part about it was that it all started to happen very, very quickly, and that was because I had all of this escrow built up in my energetic vortex that once I gave myself permission to go there and feel that way that created the polar opposite of what I had lived it all clicked into place and did it very, very quickly.
I find this pattern running in my life and my business from time to time, and when I see it for what it is boom, things click into place very quickly. I find that the same thing happens for my clients as well too, it’s why they are able to get results so quickly!
All of that to say, that if you are struggling with something and feeling like things are not exactly going the way that you want them to, that it is okay. You are creating an energetic escrow of good fortune that someday soon when you find a way to shift your perspective you will start experience the polar opposite of what you do not want in your physical experience.
Talk soon.
Love and blessings,
xox, Kim
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